I have made maybe a handful of mistakes when it comes to truly judging someone’s character.
One was a neighbor who I picked up in the rain one day when I was 18 and he stole my just cashed paycheck from my purse.
One was my ex-husband, and I was too young to know what a drunk was never mind an abusive one. I stayed too many years hoping he would be a man I could love or would love me. RIP Jim
I trucked for a couple of real screwballs, not long mind you, but they fooled me but when they tried to not pay, they saw a different side, I am no one’s fool.
OKAY I said 5 but 4 came to mind, well ones I have not forgotten, so yes I think I am pretty good at figuring out who people really are. You?
I Would Like to Think So
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My natural instinct is to trust people, which has come to bite me in the butt many times.
Your story sounds a lot like mine I only talked in depth about my kids dad but I too married a man who was the quiet abuser, and the biggest narcissist and idk if he knows what the word truth means, but man was I head over heels for him. He cheated all the time (girls knew I was his wife) talk about getting the wind knocked from under your feet. I honestly had no idea but did I leave nope 20 years almost, still not divorced ( can’t afford it, but when I can it’s done that exact moment!
I spent $500 on the attorney and told all the mutual friends they could keep him, lol you can do it just begin by making yourself the priority. Little by little day by day change the mindset then before you know it you escape.
Oh I got rid of him, however my new one is showing some of the same traits, but he at least doesn’t cheat and tries to make me happy when he can
Our issues it would seem to me that we hook up with broken soles and think our love will heal them but in the end they are broken and we will be if we allow it :(
Exactly we see potential and expect them to use it cause we want them to, well in my experience it never works that way
It is sad isn’t it we see it in them, and they don’t feel it within them. We need to learn to just pray for them and find an equal I have a great man now who I have known since I was 14 but not to say I did not try to fix him lol I tried but he was stubborn and just ended up in the hospital for a quadruple bypass for not caring for himself. Thankfully the surgeon was great, but I reminded him I did not pray for him I prayed for God to guide the surgeon’s hands. :(
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souls :)
Has there ever been a time when the positive outcome from trusting someone brought you more happiness than the collective impact of the times it didn’t work out?.
Yes, definitely. Those times do outweigh the bites in the butt.
They sure do :)
:)
After a few chunks I wised up.
I wise up now sooner than I did before.
God is that not the truth each time it gets easier and easier xo Have a wonderful Christmas.
Thanks, Eunice. I hope you had a good Christmas.
Did you capture that photo of the moon, and if so, which telescope did you use for the shot?
Yes, my photo but I tinted it blue, in the camera, and I shot it handheld with my Nikon 900
The more pertinent question might be, “Have people been right to trust me?”
Not always, I am sorry to say.
None of us are perfect that is for sure.
Your candid reflections on misjudging people resonate. It’s a tough but universal experience. Trusting our instincts is key, even if we’ve had a few surprises. Learning from these encounters builds resilience. How do you navigate trust now, considering your experiences?
I seem to be able to see trouble coming maybe not a mile away mind you but they all seem to have the same mannerisms and attitudes so I give them wide birth and carry on sharing joy and peace and love the best I can in the face of anything but <3
Spreading joy and love, steering clear of trouble—great approach! ❤️
Is this pic original?
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Yes, I took the photo and inside the camera tinted it blue as it was a Blue Moon :)
The photo is greatly captured.
Thank you
I am not good, but I still try to keep out of trouble..lol
Very nice 👍🏻🙂
We all should spread smile, love and peace in the world.
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I was horrible at this until recently. I made many mistakes. Though, the biggest mistakes were believing that people change or that I could change people by being nice to them. I thought that if you were nice to people they’d just be nice back!
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Thanks for sharing. It is too bad people can’t be trusted. I have learned lessons as well unfortunately 😕
I am convinced that there is always much more to a person than our own first impression. The cover of a book is just one indication of the content. The glowing comments on the back are another, but I don’t have to trust either. It is what is on the inside that truly counts.